One to One

You’re heart is broken and you know you need help but your not sure what to do next. The good news is that we can help you each step of the way. Your feelings are the normal and natural reaction to loss. We’ve found that the most effective way to experience the Grief Recovery Method is in a group. However we realise that there may be many reasons why this isn’t possible for you so we also offer the method on a One – One basis. 


Sadly our society does not teach us how to cope with our grief. We are merely expected to “get over it in time”. But how long are we supposed to wait for the pain to go away? A month? A year? A lifetime? 

The Grief Recovery Method has been used effectively by hundreds of thousands of grievers all over the world. The One – One Action Program is exactly what it suggests – you working on your own recovery guided by an experienced Certified Grief Recovery Specialist. 


There is no need to wait – no matter how recent the loss The Grief Recovery Method can be used to complete the unfinished business generated by any loss and allow you, the griever, to return to a full state of “aliveness”. 


If you feel you’re “existing” or “coping” rather than living fully then this program is definitely for you. 

What is the Grief Recovery Method One-to-One Action Program?

It’s a 7 week step by step class in how to complete the actions necessary to recover from grief. It is not a support chat nor is it counselling or therapy. 


It is a powerful, dynamic, sensible and accessible program that is genuinely for anyone willing to take the necessary actions to help themselves. 


The program is task based with weekly homework assignments using the Grief Recovery Handbook as the reference book. 

A safe environment that allows grievers to articulate their feelings and actively take part is essential and is provided by your Certified Grief Recovery Specialist facilitating the program. 


Only those people who have been trained by an approved trainer from the Grief Recovery Institute are authorised to run this program. 


During the sessions you will look at your old beliefs and behaviours, examine what losses you have experienced through your life; then learn and take the actions that will help you complete the pain attached to those losses and let it go. 

So if Grief is normal, what's the problem?

The problem is that while grief is a natural emotion most of what society teaches us about it and how to deal with it is intellectual. 


You can’t fix a feeling using a rational argument yet our friends, family and sadly too many professionals do this every day. 


For example following a death they may say “don’t be upset she’s out of pain” while the second half of this statement may be technically (rationally) true it is emotionally barren. They’ve moved the subject away from your feelings and on to those of the person who died. 


This intellectualisation of grief is so endemic we barely notice it anymore. We just know when people make comments they are by and large unhelpful or even hurtful despite being uttered with the best of intentions. 


Over the years of working with many thousands of grievers we’ve realised that the 6 myths associated with loss first identified by John James are almost wholly universal. 

The 6 Myths

  • Time heals all wounds

  • Replace the loss

  • Grieve alone

  • Be strong

  • Don't feel bad

  • Keep busy

The idea that time heals is particularly cruel. We’ve known people wait ten, twenty, thirty years and more and still be in pain. How long are they supposed to wait? The truth is that all time does is pass. It is the actions you take during that time that determine how completely you recover. The Grief Recovery Method teaches you the correct actions so you don’t have to hopelessly wait in pain. 

The Solution

Those around you say you have to “let go” and “move on” but they never tell you how! The Grief Recovery Method Action Program, created and evolved over the past 30 years, not only makes that possible, but provides partnerships and guidance to ensure that it happens. 

To find your nearest Certified Grief Recovery Specialist, please complete the form below or call 1800 763 538

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